Nat and Chris met while studying law and bumped in to each other while on prac. Their big on food and less on pomp so they planned their wedding a bit differently. They didn’t want a big cake or a song and dance so they focused on having great food and awesome company. These days you don’t have to do what everyone else is doing for weddings. Go with what suits you. If you don’t want to do a first dance, no need to do one. If you’d prefer a stack of cheese over a chocolate cake, go the cheese. Do what makes you happy. You won’t regret it.